This dynamic can be very arousing for both people, Ghose says. For the male partner, it’s “humiliating, emasculating—or it can be—because other hot men see their wife as attractive, all of which have different varieties of arousal and can certainly bring spice into a marriage,” she explains. For the female partner who enjoys being a hotwife, it can be awesome to hold “a lot of power to go and hook up, have relations, and dalliances with other people as she desires.” In 2010, both our jobs were transfered and we moved into a new house with my pre-teens and the baby. Life was good, we played around with a few couples and as it was easy, had a few threesomes with single guys. None of it meant anything.

The term “hotwife” refers to a married woman who has sexual relations with different men, with the approval and often encouragement of her husband who may or may not also be interested in watching or even participating. As a subset of the swinging community, hotwifing has been steadily increasing in popularity and has even become one of the highest searched categories in porn. I encourage you to buy my eBook now. “How to Transform Your Lovely Woman into a Sizzling Hotwife with 9-Step Program.”There is no other program like it. Your lovely woman will transform into a sizzling hotwife before you know it. Simply follow my easy program.As the bull, you’re the third party that gets chosen to come into the relationship. The main draw here is getting to have no-strings-attached sex with someone who is eager and willing. The word’s often used by people in polyamorous relationships to describe the feeling they get seeing their partner courting someone else.

Rae, 22, said in another video that her husband had “asked for over a year” for her to start sleeping with other men, but at first she wasn’t comfortable with the idea. So to summarise. You "dared" your wife to have sexual encounters without you. Over and over again. Although she felt "creepy", "nervous", "not in the mood" and so on. Over several years. Until finally she met someone who she enjoyed having sex with. At which point you freak out. And let this eat at you for a year. Women who have mastered every bit of hotwifing experience more emotional and physical intimacy and end up having better sex, having it even more often and being more adventurous when you do it. During love making you find that you go to an extent of making your husband more satisfied with great sex just because of the hotwife role you play.

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I met my second wife after dating for about 2 years. Angie was very easy to get along with, we never fought, just generally enjoyed each others company. We courted for 6 months and decided to get married. It was somewhat complicated as she had two older kids, who were somewhat resentful. One big bonus was Angie was great in bed, we were like teenagers. Spent hours daily having sex, both very intoxicated with one another. Not only is there the obvious physical pleasure you get from engaging in sexual acts with the bull, but the sex gets better between you and your partner, too.