First, ignore all posts saying that it is "her body" and you have no say. Such typing shows disrespect to marriage, which is a union of faith between a man and a woman, and not simply two individuals being roomates or such things. Such talk is as a venomous poison that will lead only to resentment.

But to see this for what it is, the opportunity for you as the good man to show your woman how strongly you feel about her, and what she does to her body does concern you.There should be a convo...and then maybe you should do something with just you and the wife. I know it will be hard to move past this GLARING yellow appendage...but this may be a "clue" that you wife needs to feel like an individual.

Learn more about Doc, set up a sexy play session with him for the hotwife and how he can help you have more swinging lifestyle fun on the following platforms: It is her body and her right to do with as she pleases. He has to choose to accept it or not accept it--that's the point. Yes, what she does with it affects him; she knows that. She chose to do something without consulting him--her absolute right. He does not have to like what she did, but he suggested he had a right to some control over her body. We all exercise complete control over our bodies every day--what we put in our mouths, whether or not we exercise, etc. Marriage does not negate the existence of a separate being, no matter how much you want to think it does. Either husband and wife respect each other as individuals, or they don't. Either they love each other AS individuals, or they don't. My (31F) partner (29M) and I started hotwifing a year ago and we’ve really been enjoying the lifestyle. We thought we’d share the story of our first encounter. Mentioned on this Episode: Swinger Elle ~ Mr Richardson ~ Goddess Jade Li ~ Pedro and Tink from Kitchen Sink, ENM and Kink Podcast Doc Chocolate BBC and Amy Idaho the CA Unicorn Girl recount their FUN experience at PODBASH Las Vegas which was the 3rd annual event hosted by Brenna & Brian of Front Porch Swingers. This is the first of two parts covering our recount of this AWESOME Lifestyle event!!I doubt much planning or thought went into the tattoo. It sounds like she thought, then acted. She may not even like the tattoo now. It is a sense of autonomy...although a permanent kind than just buying a really expensive purse or shoes. The solution is this, to first get yourself calm and confident over the matter, to be able to communicate with clarity from strength and dignity, and not to "blow your top" or in some other way lose control of yourself. I wouldn’t have been against her getting a tattoo, if I were told about it up front and brought in on the decision of type, location, and size, even if over the phone; after all, im gonna be looking at it more than her probably….but nadda. I think I may have actually been really excited about it if we both agreed on what/where it would be. However, I just get to live with it now….that huge yellow flower on her hip/stomach. Why a yellow flower? I don’t know…she says it’s pretty (I would have been less mad if it had some sort of familial/personnel significance). To be honest, I am not all that impressed by, nor “turned on” by this large yellow blossoming flora on her stomach. I haven’t told her that…not sure if I could.