Not all betrayals look the same. Not all betrayals feel the same. Here are just some of the things that you might feel as betrayal: To get the most benefit from this, some psychologists suggest that you focus on asking what-based questions instead of why-based ones. Some people find it incredibly difficult to control certain urges, even if they have promised you that they would. It's a major betrayal for the partner,' says Silva Neves, a psychotherapist who specialises in psychosexual and relationship therapy, and compulsive sexual behaviours. 'The betrayal is described as a sexual trauma because the person who has been betrayed has not been able to make conscious decisions about their sexual health. It's a relational trauma because your relationship agreement has been breached, and that can create attachment issues. People then start to think there's something wrong with me.'

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According to the account in the Gospel of John, Judas carried the disciples' money bag or box ( γλωσσόκομον, glōssokomon), [32] but the Gospel of John makes no mention of the thirty pieces of silver as a fee for betrayal. The evangelist comments in John 12:5–6 that Judas spoke fine words about giving money to the poor, but the reality was "not that he cared for the poor, but [that] he was a thief, and had the money box; and he used to take what was put in it." However, in John 13:27–30, when Judas left the gathering of Jesus and his disciples with betrayal in mind, [33] some [of the disciples] thought that Judas might have been leaving to buy supplies or on a charitable errand. The discrepancy between the two different accounts of Judas's death in Matthew 27:1–10 and Acts 1:18 has proven to be a serious challenge to those who support the idea of Biblical inerrancy. [43] [42] This problem was one of the points leading C. S. Lewis, for example, to reject the view "that every statement in Scripture must be historical truth". [45] Nonetheless, various attempts at harmonization have been suggested. [42] Generally they have followed literal interpretations such as that of Augustine of Hippo, which suggest that these simply describe different aspects of the same event—that Judas hanged himself in the field, and the rope eventually snapped and the fall burst his body open, [46] [47] or that the accounts of Acts and Matthew refer to two different transactions. [48] Some have taken the descriptions as figurative: that the "falling prostrate" was Judas in anguish, [a] and the "bursting out of the bowels" is pouring out emotion. [b]In the seventh novel in Julia Chapman's Dales Detective series, Date with Betrayal, betrayal is rife in the idyllic Yorkshire Dales as Samson O'Brien, owner of the Dales Detective Agency, is targeted by a hitman. Can Bruncliffe save him? A brilliantly engaging and witty mystery, perfect for fans of Richard Osman's The Thursday Murder Club and M. C. Beaton's Agatha Raisin series. Cozy Case Files Volume 16 (By: Carolyn Haines,Donna Andrews,Diane Kelly,Elizabeth Penney,Mindy Quigley,Korina Moss,M. C. Beaton) Betrayal by a friend is not something you can just laugh off, says Dr Jennifer Freyd, a psychology professor at the University of Oregon. “The very place where you should be able to get help and protection from the harms of life becomes the source of harm.” She coined the term “betrayal trauma” to describe the pain such treachery can cause. “We are a social species; when someone betrays us, it’s a real threat to our wellbeing.” In the Divine Comedy of Dante Alighieri, Judas is punished for all eternity in the ninth circle of Hell: in it, he is devoured by Lucifer, alongside Marcus Junius Brutus and Gaius Cassius Longinus (leaders of the group of senators that assassinated Julius Caesar). The innermost region of the ninth circle is reserved for traitors of masters and benefactors and is named Judecca, after Judas. Then there are betrayals that are plain and simple deliberate acts, either of malice, opportunism, or heartless indifference.

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