Not every story has a happy ending, ... but the discoveries of science, the teachings of the heart, and the revelations of the soul all assure us that no human being is ever beyond redemption. The possibility of renewal exists so long as life exists. How to support that possibility in others and in ourselves is the ultimate question.” The Canadian sections were boring in comparison, perhaps indicating how, a safe civilized society, albeit with a few discriminatory practices, can be rather bland compared to a third world country seething with conflict and dysfunction on all sides and providing a writer with rich grist for his mill. At first, this seems like a fairly common retelling of the immigrant experience; however, Selvadurai then flips the immigrant experience around and uses it to explore the coming-out experience in Shivan's homeland. How the two experiences mirror and contrast each other makes for a fascinating and engrossing comparison. Starting in markets in 1991, he opened his first store in the Sydney suburb of Newtown in 1994. I gave up my own career as a government scientist to join him in 2000 and soon convinced my partner Ian to join us in what was to become the Family Business. The arguments between Shivan and others seem interminably petty, leave a bitter aftertaste, and (can I say again?!) remain totally unresolved. The setting of Sri Lanka and its unrest feels remote and rarified from the characters. And while the prospect of Buddhist karmic redemption seems possible, the author presents almost all of the characters as unable to shake their negative patterns and rather they succumb to its weight and their shortsightedness. The results are tragic again and again.

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What's the best part of the book? The beautiful beautiful relationship that blossoms somewhere halfway in the story and it is like rain soaking a parched land. I wish the whole book were just about that relationship so that we didn't have to get to know all these awful people.The addict's reliance on the drug to reawaken her dulled feelings is no adolescent caprice. The dullness is itself a consequence of an emotional malfunction not of her making; the internal shutdown of vulnerability. Vulnerability is our susceptibility to be wounded. This fragility is part of our nature and cannot be escaped. The best the brain can do is to shut down conscious awareness of it when pain becomes so vast or unbearable that it threatens our ability to function. The automatic repression of painful emotion is a helpful child's prime defence mechanism and can enable the child to endure trauma otherwise be catastrophic. The unfortunate consequence is a wholesale dulling of emotional awareness.” this book is well written technically and the premise initially intriguing. but then the sense of fatalistic doom crept in and stayed till the very end. We may say, then, that in the world of the psyche, freedom is a relative concept: the power to choose exists only when our automatic mechanisms are subject to those brain systems that are able to maintain conscious awareness. A person experiences greater or less freedom from one situation to the next, from one interaction to the next, from one moment to the next. Anyone whose automatic brain mechanisms habitually run in overdrive has diminished capacity for free decision making, especially if the parts of the brain that facilitate conscious choice are impaired or underdeveloped.” We see that substance addictions are only one specific form of blind attachment to harmful ways of being, yet we condemn the addict's stubborn refusal to give up something deleterious to his life or to the life of others. Why do we despise, ostracize and punish the drug addict, when as a social collective, we share the same blindness and engage in the same rationalizations?” Selvadurai was born in Colombo, Sri Lanka to a Sinhalese mother and a Tamil father--members of conflicting ethnic groups whose troubles form a major theme in his work. Ethnic riots in 1983 drove the family to emigrate to Canada when Selvadurai was nineteen. He studied creative and professional writing as part of a Bachelor of Fine Arts program at York University.

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What's up with these brilliant novelists from the subcontinent who emigrate to Canada and freeze after 3-4 novels? Rohinton Mistry is similar to Shyam Selvadurai in this aspect. Second section of the Hungry Ghosts Scroll, depicting the world of the hungry ghosts, one of the six realms of Buddhism, and tales of their salvation. This particular section explains how those born as hungry ghosts are saved by the offerings of the living and relates the story of one of the thirty-six types of hungry ghosts who constantly seek water to drink. The central scene of this section shows people pouring water on a funerary marker for the ullambana festival for the dead. Kyoto National Museum. Photo credit: Wikimedia CommonsThe Hungry Ghosts is a story about karma, the burden of it, and a family whose particular burden is that they always seem to destroy the things they love. The only way to break the cycle, the stories say, is to freely offer kindness to those who need it. Filled with Sri Lankan folklore and allegorical Buddhist stories, The Hungry Ghosts paints a vivid picture of life in Colombo and the immigrant experience in Canada.

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But the Buddhist parables with which he seasons his story send a far less enlightened message. Two of the stories told to the main character, Shivan, by his grandmother involve the spectral beings of the title, "perethayas," which have "stork-like limbs and enormous an enormous belly that he must prop up with his hands ... his mouth no larger than an eye of a needle so he can never satisfy his hunger." Reading The Hungry Ghosts is like exploring a lake in a handcrafted canoe. It might not be as easy or efficient as using say, a motor boat, but you can't help but enjoy the slow, steady and deliberate journey that you're being taken on. Selvaduri's craft is in the tiny, perfect grains of literature, planted there intentionally for you to admire and connect, from the distinct language the characters use, that make you feel as if you've met his characters, to the repeated use of stories and phrases. In both the family and the country, old sins and hatreds are neither forgotten nor forgiven and, instead, spin into a cycle of recrimination and violence. While members of the family and citizens of the country might try to flee relatives or emigrate from Sri Lanka, they bring their sorrows with them. I being a ksatriya pretender stopped her in the wilderness, became a wayside robber and took her viaticum with clothes along with the dress of her son. I wrapped them around my head and wanted to leave. I saw the little boy drinking water from a jar. In that wilderness, only that much water was there.Not the world, not what’s outside of us, but what we hold inside traps us. We may not be responsible for the world that created our minds, but we can take responsibility for the mind with which we create our world.” Tirokudda Kanda: Hungry Shades Outside the Walls (Pv 1.5), translated from the Pali by Thanissaro Bhikkhu. Access to Insight, 8 August 2010.Retrieved on 24 October 2011 .

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I can feel a sense of things never being enough, the more and more money I earn never fills the spot once I obtain what I want it feels like it didn’t happen and I’m constantly searching for more.

One of the parables about perethayas is central to the book. In it, a poor woman steals the clothes off some drunken men she finds passed out on the road, and sells them for money. She knows it's wrong, so when a monk stops by later, she fawns over him in an attempt to avoid punishment for her sins in a future life. It kind of works. She's reborn in a golden mansion on an island with plenty of beautiful clothes and delicious food. In the real world there is no nature vs. nurture argument, only an infinitely complex and moment-by-moment interaction between genetic and environmental effects”