Don’t end the scene suddenly, turn the sound down, talk gently, untie gently, and care for them as they return to reality. Don’t take a blindfold off without warning! Tell them to close their eyes, and remove it. Then cover their eyes loosely with your hands as they open them. Light HURTS. However, I’m a major fan of the alternative. Confusion. The best way of doing this is deprivation through overload, and the best way of doing THAT is with the use of WHITE NOISE.

This blog is going to focus predominantly on sensory deprivation as a supporting role, going in depth into different methods and techniques you can employ to really take your play to a whole new level. A whole new psychological dimension can be brought into your sessions, the mind is the biggest sex toy of them all and sensory play sets it off like you wouldn’t believe. Let’s go! NIGHT NIGHT: Six different ways to deprive your sub of their sightSense dep can be used as the sole activity in a session, but it more often applied in a supporting modifier role to a scene. It can be used independently to good effect within TPE (Total Power Exchange) relationships and at any time when a dominant really wishes to assert their control over a submissive. The removal of sight, or speech, without any further interaction can be a very humbling situation, where the simple removal of rights is clearly separated from any sexual context. “You are gagged not to mask your screams of pain and pleasure, you are gagged simply because I say so.” Madalynn and Elizabeth were in Madalynn's office to go over some clauses in her insurance policy she doesn't quite understand. She bends over Madalynn's desk in her shiny skirt talking to her about how she thinks she swindled her and a few other suggestions. Elizabeth stands Madalynn up and tells her that she's got a desire to bind and gag her and leave her in the office and then she'll consider signing a revised contract and not going to her boss. Elizabeth stands Madalynn up and binds her wrists, elbows, then shoves a blue cloth into her mouth winding microfoam tape around her head sealing the gag tightly in her mouth. Elizabeth grabs another rope and binds Madalynn's ankles tightly together. Finally Elizabeth guides Madalynn to the floor and hogties her before giving her some gropes and fondles finally rolling her over and opening her shirt exposing her bra. Elizabeth sits on Madalynn's desk in a victory pose making the necessary corrections to the contract before heading out leaving Madalynn to struggle futilely on the floor. At a basic level, sensory deprivation is simply the removal of one or all of the human senses. In a sexual context, this can range from the simple blindfold during sex, through to total deprivation with the use of sometimes fantastical purpose-crafted head gear and bondage furniture. The range of items available to buy that cater for sensory dep is massive, with many fetish shops carrying whole walls of hoods, blindfolds and gags. Some of the best for all budgets will be mentioned throughout the text. Get yourself a Wartenberg Pinwheel, they’re brill. The awesome Bondatrix do a whole range of deviously pointy little instruments, and they’re very well priced. Applying very little pressure, run the wheel over the body, taking note of where gets a reaction and what sort. Using just a wheel and careful timing of application you can work your sub into a gasping frenzy. As above, rhythm is everything.. find the best places and run from place to place as they writhe in pleasure. Perfect. Fire and ice, always nice. I return with the Boss and Annabelle is still sitting in the chair taped and gagged with her own panties. Then the Boss turns the tables on me! Blaming me for allowing one of the secretaries to XXXX off on the job! I protested but he tied my arms and elbows anyway and shoved my own panties in my mouth , securing it with wide micro foam tape. He then put me in a really tight hogtie on the desk and Annabelle and I stayed there and struggled!

You can get free and paid apps on iTunes and the Google Play Store that play out White Noise, such as White Noise Lite for iOS (Cheers to @puploki for the recommendation) which will produce the sound for you! Do realise that the heavier scenes can become pretty boring for the dominant if you are keen to remove all stimulus. Talk with fetish friends on Skype, FetLife, or offer the scene as a cam show for people to watch. The conversation will keep you horny, and proud of your handiwork, without having to touch your sub. Introducing false points of reference that change over time can really really confuse a submissive, and particularly the use of panning can really instil almost hallucinogenic effects. The combination of this and the use of poppers, for example, is really exhilarating. You can introduce elements of the bizarre, fading in well known musical pieces, speaking into a microphone, and other totally unexpected sounds.White noise is a very weird thing, possessing interesting properties that we can use to our advantage. Our ears naturally listen out for patterns and familiarity in keeping with our general desire to know what is going on. Things that we see make the sounds we expect, we enjoy music with pleasing melodies, and many other things. With white noise, all this goes in the bin. Your wardrobe and chest-of-drawers, and the clothes on your body, are your emergency kink-aid kit. Perhaps you’re at a friends who doesn’t have a play box, perhaps you’re having an outdoors liaison that hotted up a bit more than expected, or maybe you just haven’t started your toy collection yet… whatever the reason, you haven’t got a blindfold to hand. No worry. When using fabrics as blindfolds you should be mindful of the fact that they are not completely solid materials. Particularly in the case of scarves or towels you may find the fabric fairly easy to see through. Be sure to FOLD up the garment lengthways, do not roll it as this provides an uncomfortable shape to place against the face, and is less effective. With a t-shirt, simply lay it flat, and fold up from the bottom of the body, until in line with the top and bottom of the sleeves, then fold the whole lot once more. The flat fabric will sit comfortably across the eyes, and moulds over the contours to take out most light. Pull it tight and tie it off, and there you have a functional blindfold.

It’s a lot of work, but if you’re keen to seriously deprive those senses, you have to go a long way. Just remember that this state can induce some odd effects in subs, and it’s incredibly important that you keep tabs on them throughout. When lost in your thoughts it can be easy to not notice something going amiss, and so it is vital that the dominant is very close by throughout. It is VERY VERY important to ensure that you do not deafen the sub, prolonged very loud noise can have severe implications for ongoing hearing. The best way to set a level is to talk to a sub as you turn the volume up. Ask them to nod if they can still hear you. Speak at a level you, and any other external noise, is unlikely to exceed. Keep turning it up until they stop nodding. Add a tiny bit more volume and then do not go any further. Now, let’s add the next dimension to deprivation. It’s time to drop the sub into a silent, or not so silent world. I CAN’T HEAR YOU: Depriving your sub the ability to hear a thing.

NIGHT NIGHT: Six different ways to deprive your sub of their sight

Don’t play with coloured wax unless you know what you’re doing, and you know the sub can handle it. He eventually left me there bound and gagged, my future relying on those at work to notice that I was missing for the day.