A finsub – otherwise known as a cash slave, pay pig, or human ATM is a financial submissive. They enjoy allowing a financial dominant to use their money and control their finances. The arousal factor comes from the thought of the dom invading their personal space. For many, a bank account is one of the most personal and private spaces there is, and giving the Dom access to their accounts turns them on. It will be personal and will make use of your own financial information. Long-term and short-term contracts are available. Because when you think about it,” said AJ, “tributing to a gay FinDom is like supporting a small queer business, and that’s something we should all be doing.” Financial domination, just like any other form of domination, can be a powerful and transformative experience, and it can be helpful for the findom to provide support and guidance to the finsub as they navigate this dynamic. This can include things like offering advice on financial matters or providing emotional support. This can also include taking the initiative to set boundaries for the finsub when they refuse to do so for themselves. The finsub trusts the Dom enough to submit to them, and the Dom should not abuse that trust..instead, they should justify it by supporting the sub. Show Appreciation.

I just wanted to say thank you now that I know you read these.. At a time in my life when all has gone away or turned negative and my thoughts have gone dark and hopeless, you have turned on a part of me from 40 yrs away I put away and forgot. Importantly this part gives me light and reason to go on and when I watch you videos a smile. What you have given me unknowning to you is something in life I could never repay or put a price on. " -LM Just as straight gay-for-pay porn stars managed (and still manage) to get off doing gay porn, there are straight male FinDoms getting off on what they do. “I know I enjoy draining cash from men I find unattractive,” said AJ. “Being dominant turns me on even if I’m not into the person. So, there could be straight male FinDoms out there who get some sort of sexual satisfaction from draining gay men but are still straight.” And it’s easy to see why a straight male FinDom who got a little turned during an online draining session with a gay male sub might make a point of emphasizing his straightness—not just to rub his sub’s nose in it, CASHFAG, but to reassure himself. Slurs get used a lot in the FinDom/kink scenes," says AJ, "and they really can sound and feel different depending on the sexuality of the speaker." Meaning, for some gay men being called a fag by a straight guy in a safe, controlled and consensual ways — like during a cash draining session — feels more degrading (in a sexy way) than being called a fag by another fag ever could. "But other gay men prefer gay FinDoms because they don't like hearing slurs from straight men," AJ says. And if you really want to attract other gay men like him to the FinDom scene, CASHFAG, AJ suggests making an effort to find out gay FinDoms who are already online, diligently promoting their content with likes and retweets, and—of course—sending your favourite FinDom(s) all the money you can reasonably spare.The world of kink is a wide one, and some kinks just do not make sense to people who don’t enjoy them. Whatever your feelings about a particular link, it’s important to remember that once there is enthusiastic consent between two adults and no grievous bodily or mental harm is being caused, then people should be able to practice whatever kinks they like. Many of them do not have a genuine desire to help! They are more interested in filling out a contract and scoffing at the prospect of being your slave. One of things I’ve been able to explore in the last year is FinDom. I really get off on sending money that we can spare to younger, hotter guys and being degraded for my pains. Thing is, almost all the guys doing FinDom are straight. It’s often a part of their persona they play up: they’re hot straight guys demanding cash tributes from “pathetic fags” that they would never touch in real life. On his side, dominated feel a satisfaction to see that their money contributes to the happiness of their mistress. In theory, a submissive gives his mistress the freedom to control her own money; and the domination of an unknown woman over her finances is just a kind of game that should lead to sexual fulfillment.

Over my several years as a dominant cash master, I’ve consistently worked with slaves on all types of financial budgets to implement my financial control over them. When engaging with a new slave, I take the time to ask the important questions pertaining to his life (obviously the questions which relate to what I want). I learn my slaves’ income levels, their past experiences, the level of control they seek, and their specific weaknesses / fantasies. With that information, I evaluate my plan on how to control and use this slave, since all slaves differ in their abilities and personalities. Once I build a rhythm with my cash slaves and explore various areas within their comfort levels, I begin to sometimes push the limits, depending on the slave. By exploring deep inside the slave’s mind, I possess the ability to make my slaves break their limits, their boundaries, and any prior financial cash rape records they accomplished. I don’t know why there aren’t more gay FinDoms out there,” said Master AJ, “but I’m certainly not the only one.” The more debt you have and the more you pay, the more engagement the sub has with their dom. Many enslaved people like their findom contracts so much that they pay even more than the required sum. How to Get Started And if you really want to attract other gay men like him to the FinDom scene, CASHFAG, AJ suggests making an effort to find gay FinDoms who are already online, diligently promote their content with likes and retweets, and—of course—send your favorite FinDom(s) all the money you can reasonably spare.Moreover, on this side, needless to say that the Findom makes thousands, even millions dollars to the dominatrices per day or per month. Thus, financially, the control and management of other people’s money help dominatrices to be totally free from any need. Being a financial dominator may seem like the best job in the world because you make money off of other people, but there are still certain rules and regulations in place. They can lead to fans who serve or pay you in various ways. The most important thing you must do is monetize your contracts! It may be tempting to offer a free contract.

It is important for the findom to show appreciation for the finsub’s gifts and contributions and to make sure that the finsub feels valued and appreciated in the dynamic. This can help to strengthen the bond between the two parties and create a more positive and fulfilling experience for both. We do understand that in some cases, the findom may require that the findom not appreciate them directly. This is to maintain the feeling of humiliation and worthlessness that turns them in. Is this even considered cheating because she doesn’t do anything sexual for him and he does not ask. Their conversations consider of her not even begging for money but basically demanding that he send her more money ASAP. There is no exchange between two identities that meet, and consequently sex is automatically excluded. Exchange is avoided and prevented by the distancing imposed by the network, which at the same time makes the practice of financial domination more immediate. They frequently get enamored with the prospect of you owning or using them. They eventually get around to completing the contract, and then they’re through in.

Consider this: If you want them to assist you financially, they must demonstrate that purpose early on. As a result, you must ensure that fans always pay to gain access to your contracts or applications.

Financial submissives will likely to send gifts to the financial dominant. These gifts can range from small tokens of appreciation to more expensive items. Some possible gifts include jewelry, clothes, shoes, bags and even things like cars and houses. Money The trigger phrase will not work with others. Other doms may use the same words, but My file will only make you respond to when *I* have said or written it.Financial domination can be practiced within an existing BDSM relationship or can be a standalone activity. If you have a partner or friends who are interested in BDSM, you may be able to explore financial domination with them. Both the sub and the Dom have to be enthusiastic about it for the relationship to work smoothly, though, or it could feel demeaning to one party.