Sharing His Girlfriend: The Hot Couple Book 2

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How she got into it:“I grew up with this idea that there’s not just one person for anyone and that we can enjoy being with multiple people, as well as the idea that you can have sex without having emotion tied to it. My husband knew that I was bi-curious when we met, so on the anniversary of our first date, we decided to explore and went to a swingers club.” Hopefully, that isn't the case with you, but before we discuss it any further it's important that that's ruled out first. so then, this makes it important to devise a less harmful method of correcting our partner's bad habits by employing the wife sharing method. If a faithful man were to enter a population of faithful men, he would have advantages over others. Through meeting and exploring sex with other couples, learning new peoples’ bodies and preferences can help you become more aware of your own and your partner’s as a result, says Morse. That self-awareness piece (and knowledge of your partner) is key here. If either of you tend to experience jealousy intensely, then swinging could potentially be a challenge for your relationship, according to Morse. Once you’ve established what jealousy looks like or doesn’t look like for you as a couple, you can move on to thinking about swinging more seriously. “From there, you and your partner may find you even strengthen your communication and trust, and build an even more solid foundation upon which to have sexy adventures,” says Morse.

When a relationship has a long streak of monotonous undertone, there is every tendency that the partners would start losing interest in each other. In this light, for the purpose of avoiding that to happen, some men might decide to share their wife with another man. Top 5 Secrets On How To Wife Share 1. Increase the level of trust outside the purview of whoredom, the general belief is that a man who consistently sexes a woman automatically subjects himself to being financially responsible to the woman – at least for her welfare. This might be one of the reasons your husband may want to share you with another man- the monetary benefit that comes with it. Monogamy refers to a form of partnership in which the woman has only one man and the man has only one woman. Loyalty is an important trait in relationships. Especially people who want long-term relationships want their partners to be loyal. The earlier means for instance where you and your husband agree to have sexual intimacy with another set of couples, and it doesn’t go beyond that. In the latter, however, it goes beyond the sex.

In his opinion, “wife sharing is slightly different from a swinger's lifestyle. In wife sharing, more than one couple have sexual relationships with the wife of different couples.” I'm not saying that it's proven to work out in your favor, but I think it's worth a shot. If anything, she'll at least know that you have these fantasies and maybe she'll come around. How she got into it:“Depending on the state of each relationship and my boundaries with different partners, I had different experiences. In the beginning, when I was younger, it felt awkward based on my inability to be assertive about my wants and needs. It felt more like that group sex stereotype that you might see on TV or in porn… and definitely more male pleasure-centered.” Just as there is a culture of infidelity, there is a culture of fidelity, and there may be many more faithful people than we think.

Here’s one major caveat: You need to communicate exactly what the arrangement is. “For any type of ethical non-monogamy to work peacefully, and here I’ll include swinging, you really have to be on top of your communication game, and be incredibly self-aware,” says Dr. Emily Morse, host of the podcast “ Sex With Emily ”and author of Smart Sex.“Most folks think any type of non-monogamy is about more sex, but if anything, it requires more communication!” You need to take extra time to process your emotions around your sexual relationships and how its impacting your main partner, even if you develop other sexual and romantic connections, emphasizes Morse.

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How it impacted her relationship:“Sexual jealousy has never really been an issue for me, and as long as my needs are being met, I feel secure and aroused when I watch a partner enjoying someone else. I think one mistake some people make is assuming that swinging has only one meaning, but it’s something that is totally open to interpretation. Some of my most intimate, fulfilling encounters lately have been ‘soft swap’— meaning I have sex with my primary partner, and have foreplay only with our ‘guests.’” But when a thief stumbles upon a good woman, nothing happens, because the thief would not exert enough effort and the woman would not give up fast enough.