I could give a bunch of examples from the book, but I want you to read it! So go get it from the library TODAY. Then share with me what your primary language is! I'd love to know everyone's. Mine is Words of Affirmation. Atingerea fizică. Îți place să te îmbrățișezi, să atingi și să săruți. Când ești supărat, o îmbrățișare te calmează mai mult decât cuvintele.

Serviciile: Persoana draga simte ca o iubiti mai ales cand o ajutati activ cu responsabilitatile casei. Ajutati-o cu spalatul vaselor, cumparaturi, faceti impreuna o lista cu ce e de facut prin casa si asumati-va o (mare) parte din ele. Intrebati-o ce prioritati sunt si focalizati-va asupra lor. I've always thought personality quizzes were fun and this book has a certain appeal because of that. There is something fun about trying to discover your "love language" and your spouse's, and see what that says about you both. Just to establish, the 5 Love Languages in the book are Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Acts of Service, Physical Touch, and Receiving Gifts. I can see how in certain instances, thinking about the love languages could strengthen communication in a relationship. For instance, if one spouse really communicates most strongly with physical touch but that doesn't come naturally to the other partner, they might feel unloved until the other partner learns to show love through physical touch. același timp, și cel de lângă noi poate să aibă frământări similare, chiar dacă noi îi transmitem, în modul nostru, că îl iubim și că-i suntem alături zi de zi.

Pentru aceasta, însă, este esențial să ne identificăm propriul limbaj de iubire, să-l înțelegem în profunzime. Pe parcursul zecilor de ani de consiliere matrimonială, Gary Chapman a identificat și analizat cinci limbaje fundamentale ale iubirii: Cele 5 limbaje ale iubirii Cuvintele After the emotional high of love wears off AKA honeymoon phase of the relationship ends, it leaves us with the reality that the person we are with is not as perfect as we had once imagined. In this situation, we have to make efforts to sustain love and cultivate intimacy. Pentru o persoană care se simte iubită atunci când primește cadouri, cele mai importante lucruri sunt, în esență, dedicarea, atenția, timpul pe care celălalt l-a investit în căutarea darului pe care i l-a oferit. Practic, în mintea acesteia se creează asocierea dintre obiectul propriu-zis sau experiența dăruită (bilete la concertul trupei sale preferate) și aprecierea transmisă prin cadoul respectiv. Serviciile Books that give you a “thought for the day”, you know, something cosmic and revelatory to think about and chew on for eternity (or until you close the book). Amintește-ți, vorbind aceleași limbaje de iubire cu partenerul cresc șansele să ai o relație autentică și sănătoasă!

Don't get me wrong, I am all for good communication, respect and understanding how to make your spouse feel loved. But when this misogynist flavored relationship guru doled out advice to a woman in a 'horrible' marriage, I took issue. The details of horror of the marriage were largely unsaid, other than it was given that the husband cursed and said he hated his wife. This woman was very religious and clearly the idea of leaving her husband was at odds with her beliefs. Since the husband had no interest in seeking marriage counseling, the author/marriage counselor devised a unilateral plan he admitted didn't know would work. The crux of the plan was for the wife to speak to her husband in his love language, and hopefully he would eventually he would reciprocate and the love tanks would start to refill. This plan basically suggested, among other things, that the wife initiate sex with her husband (as his love language was physical touch) even though this idea did not appeal to the wife. Kind of a 'take one for the team' approach. The author clearly said that this was her decision to do so. Ok, so all this has the appearance of consenting adults and informed decisions, so where's the problem Katie? Oh, I don't know, how about emotional manipulation of the vulnerable? Call me cynical, but I picture an abused spouse emotional or physical, it makes no difference to me reading this and thinking that I just need to have sex with my husband and maybe things will work out. Explicându-i că, pentru tine, cel mai important este timpul de calitate, în care vă conectați unul la celălalt, îi vei spune, practic, cum își poate „ajusta” comunicarea, în așa fel încât iubirea lui să ajungă, în limbajul tău, la tine. Înțelegi nevoile emoționale ale celuilalt și îți dezvolți latura empaticăDe ce unele merg, de ce unele nu, care e partea spirituala implicata in relatie, ce e cu chimia, ce e cu karma, de ce iubirea nu e suficienta, si multe alte dileme, despre care o sa iti povestesc pe parcurs. Now physical love language can manifest itself in a few ways - could be that you just crave touch - hugs, hand-holding, resting head-on-shoulder during movies, or snuggling at night. Or it could be sex.