This is a form of “restrictive discipline,” much like giving your sub a “time out” in the corner. If they break the rules, take away something they enjoy as punishment. This could be access to the show they want to watch, their cell phone, or even an orgasm. 22. Writing lines

Only allow your sub to pleasure themselves with your permission," Pfeuffer says. "If rules are broken, that permission is revoked." This means you hold the power over whether they experience pleasure or not; their pleasure is a gift you’re allowing them to enjoy in return for good behavior. 18. Have them run errands while wearing vibrating panties Tell your sub to get on all fours and act as a stool for you to rest your feet. Dive into a good book and force them to stay still until you’re good and ready to let them get up. 15. Give them a time-out Try to find out as much as possible details of the sub missive’s fetishes before the session. To see if there is an affinity between you.If your sub is naughty, take away their table privileges and force them to eat off the floor like a dog. 14. Use them as human furniture A Slave Auction at Sanctuary (My Experience: Lessons on Safe Words, Floggers, Sensations & Aftercare) Only do more dangerous practices when you gain experience. Special care with breath control, gags that make breathing difficult, and urethral tubes. The strings deserve special attention in blood circulation.

If you are going to work with candles, be very careful about the temperature of their wax, as well as the possibility of fire. A chastity device is really cool, it makes the session last for days or weeks. And conditions his sexual pleasure to your presence, holder of the keys. Do not demand anything financial from the sub, unless you are a GP Dominator. In this case, make it clear from the beginning of the D/S relationship.

Have your sub go to the grocery store, the dry cleaners, or some other ordinary place while wearing a panty vibrator. You can accompany them, if you choose. We love the We-Vibe Moxie, which comes with its own remote for the dom to control. 19. Make them wear the shame Be tough when necessary, but be polite. It is not a frown or fear that will make the submissive obey you, but the admiration he will have for you. Wearing collars is important, as in addition to referring humiliation, it always makes him feel connected to you. This is a form of public degradation: You make your submissive wear a shirt that literally says "slut" on it. 7. Chain the naughty sub up If your sub breaks the rules, write what they did wrong on their body in permanent marker. Make them wear it around all day so they don’t forget how naughty they were. 20. Golden shower

Don’t be with some “charity” submissive, they don’t want to be with charity Dom. In addition to the session being terrible for you. The horny, the desire are necessary for a session. Have your sub sit in the shower or bathtub and pee on them. This kind of humiliation play can get messy, so you might want to do it in the nude. 21. Take away something they like Refuse to let your partner pleasure you and make them beg for a taste," Saynt suggests. "Come within a few inches of their mouth, watch their tongue slip out and get just close enough but not quite there. Make your body their prize and make the longing for it the punishment.” 11. Grab the iceEvery couple is free to determine the type and severity of punishments they want to use—and the options are essentially endless. For example, if the submissive partner is a "brat" (a sub who enjoys disobeying their dom’s rules), a dom might give you a spanking as a punishment for being naughty.

This is where you bring someone to the brink of orgasm, only to stop touching them right before orgasm. Oh, the sweet agony. 2. Spanking (or not spanking)

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What chore(s) does your sub hate doing? Make them do it—meticulously,” Pfeuffer suggests. What better excuse to not have to do the dishes tonight? 13. Make them eat on the floor