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But I will say I edit like a mother. I mean, I edit endlessly. I heard once that Hemingway edited every chapter 50 to a hundred times. And I'm like, "All right, well hot damn, then I'm like Hemingway, because I'm an obsessive editor." So I just forgo sleep. I have really bad habits that way. I'll just, not anymore, but for a lot of my career I just didn't sleep.

So I found for me that I'm a very collaborative person. When I did my first book, I actually hired a book coach simply to have somebody to talk to. They're seeing the latest books on the shelf. So every year, there's this new available market for relationship books. And it's like that across the board. I mean, we always have the staples, but there's always room for new. Make Every Man Want You: How to Be So Irresistible You'll Barely Keep from Dating Yourself! (2008) ISBN 978-0071597814Don't be fooled by the title--this is an example of the marketing truth that people will buy what they want, not what they need. If the book had been called "How to Be Your Best Self--i.e., Your YOUest You!" I would have passed it by. But that's what it's really about. Becoming irresistible to men is a likely side-effect of doing that, but more importantly, you'll love yourself and your life. Hell yeah, that's what I'm talking about!

Because if it went away, it would mean maybe that we were just phoning it in that we didn't give two shit anymore.It won’t always be easy. Or straightforward. But once you’ve ingrained this belief into your operating system, the inevitable obstacles, pain, devastation, and challenges that come with life won’t be any match for your inner resolve, creativity, and strength. Your Future Is Figureoutable Don’t take it personally if you don’t get much of a response. Our friends across the pond tend to be a bit more reserved.”