All Your Perfects: A Novel: 4 (Hopeless)

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Talán feltűnt, hogy nem kizárólag csak pozitívumokat említettem az értékelésemben, a könyv mégis 5/5 pontot kapott: úgy gondolom, hogy Colleen Hoover ezzel a regényével az emberi érzések és fájdalom bemutatása terén óriásit alkotott. Lehet, hogy nem egy dosztojevszkiji cselekmény és leírásmód az, ami keretbe foglalja a mű üzenetét, de ennek ellenére az írónő képes volt arra, hogy elérjen a lelkemig, és bár az én hosszútávú terveim között az idős macskás hölgy ideálja szerepel, Quinn és Graham fájdalmába az egész valóm beleremegett. Tetszett a lezárt doboz ötlete. Házasságkötésük után mindketten írtak a jövőbeli énjüknek egy levelet. spoiler

Fontos dologra hívja fel a figyelmet: egyetlen házasság sem tökéletes, de tudni kell kezelni a problémákat és kitartani egymás mellett, bármit is hoz az élet – ha igazán szereti egymást a két fél. Én örömmel konstatáltam, hogy Quinn és Graham szerették egymást eléggé ahhoz, hogy ne eldobják, hanem megjavítsák. Nagyon tetszett a doboz ötlete. Talán nekem is szükségem lesz erre a dobozra, jó gondolat, amely segíthet felébreszteni a kihúnyó érzelmeket, emlékeztet arra, hogyan is indultak a dolgok. I am not in anyway justifying infidelity, because even in this case it was hard for me to get over. But what let me get over it was the fact that even the book didn't justify it. Sure, Quinn may not blame him - but the author opens up account for US to blame him. Additionally, for Graham to blame him. Through the love we see that he shines on Quinn is beautiful and magical - until it's not. But that's life. Cheating happens in life, but justifying never should. Graham, I couldn't even be mad at him. I'm hurting so much, simultaneously, for both of them and the situation they've found themselves in that I just couldn't find it in me. There's something Quinn thinks, "A person can understand a behavior without excusing it" and I think that's the best way to put it. Sometimes I look at him and feel such an overwhelming appreciation for him, I almost want to write thank-you notes to our exes."Colleen has written about a lot of heavy things, but I think this one may have hit the hardest for me. I'm not really sure why, because I've never felt the way Quinn does, nor do I think it would be crippling for me to not have a family of my own one day, but I felt every second of her pain. So deeply. I had to put this book down several times simply because I didn't know if it was the right kind of sad. That thought plagues me during the entire ride up the elevator to Ethan’s floor. Vincent has been my favorite doorman since Ethan moved into this apartment building. He always smiles and chats with me. But today, he simply held the door open with a stoic expression. Not even a, “Hello, Quinn. How was your trip?” This is not a bash on anyone that disliked this book because of this, nor does this in any way make your opinion inconsistent. We all feel differently when we read, and that's one of the most beautiful things about reading. You’re the white queen of romances ( your Siamese twin Tarryn Fisher shows the ugly parts of romance as the dark queen :))

Colleen Hoover is one of my favorite authors. Not many can evoke the kind of emotion she does with each and every book. All Your Perfects may be her most emotional one yet, at least for me it was. Graham, on the other hand, was much harder for me to fall for. And even though some of his actions were really beautiful and selfless, I never fully loved him because some of his other actions were so nasty and selfish. And I get it, we are all human, we all make mistakes and do bad things sometimes, but his mistakes just prevented me from ever rooting for him. Graham does some really abusive stuff in this book that is never told like it’s abuse, too.Aki sírós, vegyen egy bálányi zsebkendőt – aki nem sírós, az készüljön fel rá hogy ez a könyv kegyetlenül földhöz vágja majd. Colleen Hoover rajongóknak pedig újabb kötelező olvasmány. International and #1 New York Times bestselling author of romance, YA, thriller, women's fiction and paranormal romance. Nem tudtam, hogy mire számítsak, direkt nem olvastam előre értékeléseket, sem véleményeket, de csodás élménnyel gazdagotam. Annyira aranyos és szívszaggató! Most nézzétek, hát nem: „Until then, I will continue to love you more and more with every struggle we face than I loved you when all was perfect.” Olyan amitől egyszerre akarsz sírni a boldogságtól és a szomorúságtól. Borzasztóan fájt a szívem Grahamért és Quinnért. Semelyikőjüket nem hibáztatom. Nem azt mondom, hogy Quinnel mindenben egyetértettem, nem. Voltak olyan dolgok, amiknél csak néztem, hogy most komolyan? Ezzel is baja van? De értettem miért, nagyon a gödör alján volt lelkileg. Tehát sajnáltam azok miatt, a dolgok miatt, amit az élet mért rá és sajnáltam saját maga miatt is. All Your Perfects is a book that made me feel every emotion in the world. It broke me, and it healed me, and it made me not feel so lonely. I wanted to hug my iPad, and throw my iPad. I wanted to give it five stars, and I wanted to give it one star. I swear, this book made me feel everything. And even though I had problems with some of the content, I still think this book is super important. And the subject matter of this book is something I’ve never read about before, and it’s a topic that we need to be normalizing and start discussing more.

Our marriage hasn’t been perfect. No marriage is perfect. There were times when she gave up on us. There were even more times when I gave up on us. The secret to our longevity is that we never gave up at the same time.” I wish I could say I’m sorry for wanting a baby more than I want him. But that wouldn’t help, because it would be a lie. I’m not sorry.” Rengeteg mondanivalója volt ennek a könyvnek, és hihetetlen az a tehetség, amivel Colleen Hoover képes volt átadni azt a milliónyi érzelmet, amit a történet magában hordozott. Minden egyes szó a lelkem legmélyéig hatolt, és míg a múlt fejezetei mosolyt csaltak az arcomra, addig a jelenben a főszereplőkkel együtt sírtam. Tényleg nem tudok rá jobb szót mondani, mint hogy érzelmileg megterhelő volt. Ismét egy csodálatos Colleen Hoover regényt vehettem a kezembe. Ez újra egy nagyon más stílusú könyv volt, sokban eltér az előző írásaitól. Felnőtt, nagyon jól összerakott, komoly problémát feszegető regény ez. I look at him and realize it’s the first time I’ve really taken him in. This might be one of the worst moments of his life, but even taking that into consideration, he’s extremely handsome. Expressive dark brown eyes that match his unruly hair. A strong jaw that’s been constantly twitching with silent rage since I walked out of the elevator. Two full lips that keep being pressed together and thinned out every time he glances at the door. It makes me wonder if his features would appear softer if his girlfriend weren’t in there with Ethan right now.

the book blurb is a bit ambiguous, so i will keep my review vague as well. i will say, though, that the struggles this couple went through were not something that i have ever read about before, nor was it something that i have experienced personally. regardless, i found it so easy to empathise with these characters and have my heart hurt for them. it took me awhile to warm up to them, quinn in particular, but goodness, how my heart ached for them throughout this. Colleen Hoover is one of those authors that could literally write a book about anything and I’ll buy it. In fact, if she wants to publish a book about elephants eating chocolate chip muffins….I’ll probably judge a little but I’d still buy it. I’m that loyal. My bank account may not support my life as a reader but it gotta learn one day that Colleen Hoover is queen and exceptions need to be made. Quinn as well as likewise Graham pleased in unusual scenarios yet it appeared destiny indicated for them to be with each various other. Their love was a fairytale till the gladly ever after curdle. Their understandings of an outstanding collaboration as well as likewise excellent family members create right into an uncontrollable as well as likewise hazardous obstacle that is harming their lives.

I open my mouth, but uncertainty is all that comes out. “Are you . . . are you sure? Maybe those sounds aren’t coming from Ethan’s apartment. Maybe it’s the couple in the apartment next door.”This love that Graham and Quinn shared was messy, beautiful and absolutely filled to the damn brim with hope. Their story showed an ugly truth to life, that hope isn't always something to lean on, rather something to keep close. There were some aspects in this book that I will talk about in the next section, only because I'm making everything above that last section spoiler free. I’m going to go crawl into my bed and spend approximately 2 years sobbing over this book and the pain it brought upon me.