You Only Fall in Love Three Times: The Secret Search for Our Twin Flame

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Another fun part of October is to go to corn mazes which are sometimes fun and hard to do with friends and family. They say you only truly fall in love with three people in your life and each for their very own important reason. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.” – Albert Einstein The three-time love theory also has its own shortcomings in that we may not fall in love only three absolute times in our entire lifetime. These three times can represent three phases of love with several love experiences in between.

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The fact that he courted you is what keeps you interested. He gives you what you believe to be butterflies in your stomach.Several theories have explained what falling in love is and how many times we fall in love in our lifetime. The most prominent of those theories is the “Three-time theory” which states that we fall in love three times in our lifetime, each for a specific reason. The Cranberries” recorded seven studio albums from 1993 through 2017 and Dolores O’Riordan (their late great, incredible lead voice) had two studio albums as a solo act. Within those nine albums hides a plethora of great music. And maybe there’s something special about our first love, and something heartbreakingly unique about our second…but there’s also just something pretty amazing about our third.

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The second is supposed to be our hard love—the one that teaches us lessons about who we are and how we often want or need to be loved. This is the kind of love that hurts, whether through lies, pain or manipulation.It’s been said that we really only fall in love with three people in our lifetime. Yet, it’s also believed that we need each of these loves for a different reason. Falling is a beautiful experience that is typically described by the electrifying experience it produces in the individual but love itself is more than just the feelings. No explanations needed and no dramatization: it is welcoming, caring and unapologetically true. It’s the love that just feels right. Maybe we don’t all experience these loves in this lifetime, but perhaps that’s just because we aren’t ready to. Maybe the reality is we need to truly learn what love isn’t before we can grasp what it is.

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With this kind of love, trying to make it work becomes more important than whether it actually should. The first snowflake means that life is about to slow down, and settle into a calmer pace. After all, who can be out and about so much when the roads are sketchy? The first snowflake means that there is no chance for Summer to rear it’s out of season head and cause uncomfortable humidity and heat. The first snowflake means the earth gets a break. The first snowflake means future quiet evenings with a good book in front of the fire. The first snowflake means that while the plants are sleeping, the moisture has a chance to soak in and create the ability for rebirth in the Spring. The first snowflake means beauty as the brown, dead fields are covered with pristine white. Eventually, the butterflies turn out to not be butterflies. The fluttering turns into stab wounds. And everything is hard. So much harder than it should be. The first stab of love is like a sunset, a blaze of color — oranges, pearly pinks, vibrant purples…” – Anna GodbersenOn the other hand, the first time we fall in love may be unrequited. Nevertheless, it still is the ‘one that looks right’, making us go out of our way to make it work, just in a different sense than what is mentioned above. Whichever one happens, it is the love for us that we aspire to hold on to, ignoring the circumstances that it may very well not be the ‘one that lasts forever’, regardless of how beautiful it is or we feel it is.