This wasn't just prancing around semi-clad it was proper gyrating and writhing worthy of a strip joint! It wasn't to sell records by anyone and it's not like the performance didn't have any resemblance to the movie?

Was not allowed to watch "Dallas" as a ten year old and so now a mother am determined not to over protect/control my children.

I know many would dissaprove of this but I would rather he learnt things from me than the playground. Oh come off it - you could see one of the dancers breakfasts the wrong way round on the burlesque performance. Caucasian young man dressed like nerd wearing propeller hat with blonde Caucasian young woman in nerdy eyeglasses and tshirt reading I love nerds and plaid skirt. Read more about the condition New with tags: A brand-new, unused, unworn and undamaged item in the original packaging (such as the original box or bag) and/or with the original tags attached. I don't think saying 'Well it's not as bad as Saudi Arabia, so it must be ok,' is much of an argument really.

As we grow, heal and mature we have to help this part of ourself along with our wounded child (see previous post) become integrated into our adult understanding and the safety we co-create in our bodies, so they can release some of their learned defenses and respond in a more healthy way. I, too, have been making comparisons with strict regimes such as in muslim countries where there is still vast amounts domestic violence/rape/exploitation of women. To calculate the overall star rating and percentage breakdown by star, we don’t use a simple average. I don't agree though with some of the posters that said the performance was sexed so CA could sell records.Have just read this thread, and have to agree - in fact both DP and me commented on the fact it was pretty risque for 7. My 4 yr old ds knows exactly how where babies come from down to the sperm's tail falling off when it meets an egg! They need to be heard, seen, and known past their exterior defense so their deeper needs can be met. But the reality is we may have adult bodies but we can still be emotionally stunted and suspended in time; a time when our defense mechanisms made sense and helped us survive, or when our responses were actually developmentally appropriate.

A digression from the OP, but with all the talk of men in suits vs women in their pants in pop music, I went to see Scissor Sisters the other day - Ana Matronic wore a knee-length, flare-skirted dress with long sleeves and a high neckline (ok, it was made of PVC but she was pretty much covered up) and she not only had more sex appeal in her little finger than any of those dancers on the X factor, but she was also a brilliant performer - as are Christina A and Rihanna - so why do they do it? WAYYYY too much and I dont want my boys thinking that is what is normal or sexy growing up - whatever happened to looking at the knickers section in the kays catalogue as a boy - no need for it anymore! it's all a question of context, what is appropriate, a subjective matter, people will think diffrently. Caucasian young man smiling dressed like nerd sitting at computer looking at viewer with Caucasian young blonde woman in french maid outfit bending over and pointing.As we do this, they can start to help us in relationships respond appropriately to warning signs, advocate for our needs, set healthy boundaries, and express our anger and disappointment in a regulated way.

I've barely watched x-factor in my life but I had thought everyone said that, for all its faults, it was something that had got families watching telly together.They also hold a lot of our pride- the manifestation of our mistrust that leads us rely on ourselves.