This is such an easy answer; right now, or tomorrow if ‘ right now’ happens to be too late in the day. Yeah, go figure! Not long after that though, life started to imitate art instead of the other way around, and the first real chastity devices were made. It’s every sissy’s dream to be owned by a strict and demanding Mistress (if you’re into women). But for every Domme, there are thousands of sissies willing to serve. How do you go about finding Her? Here is some Mistress finding advice… Application: The product stays best when it is applied flat against the skin & set for 30 min. For best results, apply to freshly cleaned skin that is towel-dried and free of sweat, oils, creams, or lotions

I’m still undecided on hormones Lady Alexa. I am considering implants as well. I just love the thought of completely feminizing Selina. I have her on a strict diet, am doing waist training with a corset, and feminizing her voice will be a big step in the process. I am working towards her living full time as a woman and plan to achieve it this month. A couple of days later I finally got up the nerve to tell her everything that was on my mind. I started by telling her how much I wanted to be a disabled woman all the time. We discussed it for a while and she said she didn't have any problems with it but did I actually want to be a woman. I told her that I wasn't completely sure but I did want to have real breasts and at least try living full time as a woman. She said that I had better make up my mind because it would be hard to live as a man with breasts. She had a good point there and I told her that I was sure I wanted to live as a woman from there on. She smiled and said that was fine with her but she had a few conditions. That she would have conditions surprised me. When she brought out a printed list of her conditions it made me realize she had actually been planning this for quite a while and had done a lot of research. So you may ask why would I need another sissy around when I have Alice? Well firstly Alice isn’t really a girl, she’s a feminised male. So I fancied having someone more feminine to serve me. Secondly, I love the idea of a couple of feminised males serving me. And getting them to play a little. Irregular/Unscheduled – Some couples may want to do this infrequently to add a boost to your relationship. While I am confident that you will eventually end up with one of the above release schedules, this is a great place to start. Sex (Absolutely her control area. She decides when and what she wants, I don’t decide anything. I’m allowed to ask, but not beg. And I’m not allowed to ask all the time (don’t be annoying!) but only carefully when she’s in the mood. Chastity and strict orgasm control are absoltely mandatory to her, no exeptions)I couldn't believe what was the happening as Mistress got out of the car and I followed her almost in a daze. We went past the window displays of bras, girdles and corsets of all kinds. The heaviest ones appealed to me most. They were made of heavy canvas or heavy brocade fabrics in all colors with laces and straps everywhere and garters hanging from the bottom. Some only Learning goals and rewards begin with your selecting what he is to learn. He will ask for a reward of his choosing (you can limit his choices by using a list). You will teach him and watch his progress. When he learns the task, he has met his goal and is to be commended. When he shows prolonged retention of that learning he gets the reward. Training your man by coaching I added some timeout when he was hovering wanting me for find him things to do or whining, I had him go into another room so I could relax I wanted to be clear what my rules were, so I sent these to her. In the process I updated what I had. SISSIES NEED RULES Generally what you want your man to learn in your female led relationship and what he wants to learn are very different. You want him to learn to overcome his bad habits, work independently, find fulfillment in growing, gain confidence in your leadership and participate as your supportive follower. He want to learn how to serve your body, obey your commands, please you sexually, humble himself and learn what it is like to surrender. Because of the difference and size of the task at hand you must choose your targets. In management 101, when faced with a large number of tasks you must prioritize them, take the top ten and do as many as you can. Delegate where you can and just maintain a list of the ones that don’t get done. There is, however, the added complication of keeping both of you motivated.

There is no doubt that every relationship is different when it comes to just how far our feminization goes, like most though it does start off as a game and the more willing we are to try new things the further we are drawn into it and obviously the more a woman finds an emasculated male more to her liking than a macho jerk who thinks he’s God’s gift to women. It’s no wonder this lifestyle works so well and moves from playful fun to accepting our feminization and as our feminine wardrobe grows we instinctively know this is for real, rules and all. I came into chastity awareness through Taoism, and Neo Tantra. I trained as an athlete, professional teacher, and in martial arts some. I now view the chastity FLR path as a path of Zen-like discipline, creating massive life change for me, much improved well being, and most of all requires real training. It is the most important and valuable training of my entire life.

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My relief was short-lived as something else almost immediately pressed against me and began to slip inside. At least it wasn't cold and seemed to be slightly soft, rigid but with a soft surface. It was large and stretched my sphincter painfully but after a large part of it was inside me it seemed to reduce in diameter and as my tight sphincter slid down the smaller portion it actually pulled

Fast forward a bit and I had asked her to spank me in regard to it excited me. More discussions that kind of brought out my desires to look after her. She did whip me a few times and then there was a break. She said she found it wrong to hurt someone. I said things like other people do it and that it helped me stay on a submissive headspace and so on. So now she whips me but not as punishment but as a reward and it’s her way of supporting me. She will say I am doing this for you. On the detail, when I am to be whipped, she will tell me to go and get ready. I have to get the ropes and toe them to the corners of the bed. I then remove my clothes and lie spread eagle and she ties me down and gags me because we both know I am too weak to endure on my own. At this stage I am questioning in my own mind if I am just too weird. Then she whips me. It’s insanely painful and I am totally focused on surviving the pain. Then it’s over.The straps holding me in the stirrups and to the table being released woke me up. Someone lifted my legs out of the stirrups and helped me into a sitting position on the end of the table. I was so exhausted I could barely sit upright but the same hands helped steady me. The gag in my mouth deflated in I felt the laces of the helmet being loosened. The strap holding the gag was released and it was pulled from my mouth and the pads covering my eyes were also released and removed. It was the nurse helping me and I could see Mistress and the doctor on the other side of the examining room talking and putting things into a medium-sized suitcase. The nurse pulled the helmet from over my head and handed it across the room to Mistress who placed it in the I think his goal was the fantasy of feeling like a slave and mine was more intimacy and less of him wanting sex instead of closeness. Consider getting help from another woman or man who is more dominant than you. You play the good leader and she/he plays the strict disciplinarian. You will need to coach at the same time but the tag team approach gives the learner plenty of focus time on his fantasy and reinforces the woman’s leadership and superior role. Training your man with the boot camp approach A natural Dominant Lady in whom you can find the unique combination of gorgeous looks and sharp mind. The Femdom was ever since Her early youth the only way of life imaginable. A true chastity experience usually involves a decision-maker and a chaste person. The decision-maker (or the keyholder) holds the key to the other person’s pleasure, gratification, and release. They can do so metaphorically or literally if the chaste person is in a chastity device.