Regardless of who in the dynamic should be held accountable for financial difficulty in the world of findomming as the UK’s cost of living crisis shows no signs of slowing, it’s clear that for many where there is a will, there’s certainly a way. Rufus Shinra develops a fetish in real time. This kills the man. Language: English Words: 20,758 Chapters: 6/6 Comments: 21 Kudos: 35 Bookmarks: 3 Hits: 901 Dangerous Hobby by Jsmt on asstr.org looks very promising but he's really taking his time with this one lol.

He does have a lot of money but I feel like this is our money that he is throwing away. Our money for the future. For kids for a house for trips whatever. Not to be giving away to some FinDom from the Internet.

He has a lot of money saved up as a result of his job and some inheritance from some deceased relatives. But though some doms aren’t concerned with the lengths their subs go to pay up, most make it a point not to push the fantasy into dangerous financial territory. “My whole interest in [Dominant/submissive] relationships is having someone offer me something rather than taking it,” says Blunt, explaining that she only plays with subs who have money to spare. If they don’t have enough disposable income — which she makes a point of finding out beforehand — they’re disqualified until they do. In some cases, this actually works as a motivating factor — the harder they work and the more they earn, the more able they are to worship and serve her. One findomme, who has nearly 20 years experience, says the industry has changed since the advent of social media platforms in the early 2000s. It just means living frugally until I can afford not to, I make sure all my big essentials are sorted out as soon as I get paid and then if I have to spend a couple of weeks eating rice and beans, then so be it."

I studied this growing fetishistic practice and wrote about it in my recent book — Mistress Pussycat: Adventures with Submissive Men in the World of Femdom. While most submissives crave whips, chains, and physical pain, “money slaves” get off on being insulted and losing financial control. The psychological fetish involves mostly men, or "pay pigs", taking on a submissive role and worshiping their "findommes", or dominant women, by paying them for nothing tangible in return. Ridicule is the best medicine. For most men, hearing a haughty young woman laugh and call them a “loser” would be the ultimate mood-killer. But for pay pigs, such insults will likely result in an erection. Being called a “pathetic old creep” is a particularly potent remark in the findom community. These men don’t feel preyed upon; instead, they are highly aroused.Fair exchange is no robbery, hey?" Language: English Words: 8,957 Chapters: 2/2 Collections: 1 Comments: 25 Kudos: 238 Bookmarks: 33 Hits: 3,808 She claims to have coined the term "findom" in about 2005, although there is no official record of its origins. "Findomme" refers to a woman who practices financial domination. Well... let’s just say that I found out he signed a debt contract with a FinDom for a very large amount of money. He would be sending her money as a “paypig” and she would thank him but no sexual favors whatsoever. He committed to paying her purely because of some sexual pleasure. It’s called FinDom apparently.

I’m really concerned about the cost of living crisis, as my disposable income is becoming less and less every month as prices go up. From a sub point of view, we’re going to have to really budget what we send to dommes," said Beta Boy Sub. Side note: when establishing a relationship of FinDom nature, it is imperative you put things in writing to cover your own ass in case sh*t hits the fan.** Due to some UK clients having smaller budgets, Mistress Katrina aims to market to more U.S. and Middle Eastern clients. If she were to solely focus on UK clients, she'd see a drop in income. "The ongoing crisis has encouraged me to think outside the box," she said, "and how best to leverage my position in the current client."

Newer, inexperienced dommes, who’ve arrived on the scene to make additional income as the cost of energy, fuel, food and more rises in the UK, could be at risk of pushing submissives into debt - but who does that responsibility of care actually lie with?