A tie should always be tied and re-tied every day. Smooth top, no wrinkles, the tip should just reach the top of your belt. The Butler mostly use a tie, the bow-tie is mostly for a gala or special occasions. Be aware that this is also of course entirely up to the principal or the estate/household management team.

Jewellery and glasses is also a factor for the Butler. Wedding ring and discreetly glasses without «bling» is preferred. Hygiene is important for a Butler working so close to other people. Oral care, washing and showers, nice clean nails and taking care of nose hair and all body parts are of course essential. A Butler is after all a role model. Is it getting hot in here, or is it just me? Everyone has a fantasy about being rescued by a hunky fireman. You can set the bedroom ablaze with a much more lightweight and naughty version of a fireman’s outfit. Play the role of a sexy firefighter in a super skimpy costume that will create a super hot bedroom scene. A suit with tie and suit-vest is most common garment to be used. Remember the difference details, separating the Butler discreetly from others.

Is clothing important for a Butler?

Erotic Gangster Roleplay Idea: One of you is the gangster, the other is the cop. It’s time to make an arrest, but this criminal will do anything to get away. Time for a game of good cop bad cop? Erotic Cop Costumes Tattoos and piercings. Tattoos are common these days, still, hide tattoos and forget visible piercings. One important factor is also to separate the Butler from guests or principal. If there is a gala night, it is important that the Butler and staff have a waistcoat and bowtie with a slightly different colour setting. Being discretely separated from guests. Nothing is more embarrassing than a guest asking another guest for a drink or food, so clothing is important.

Some private Butlers use all private, casual clothing. It is a combination of tradition and what the principal who has hired a butler wants. Clothing is also varied in where you are at the time, Butlers in hotels, private clubs or other facilities use a uniform based on the company policy and rules. Is clothing important for a Butler? Except inside hotels or similar hospitality operations, a name tag is not to be worn. The role of the Butler is a discreet one, and showing your name is therefore inappropriate. In hotels, clubs and other hospitality facilities, it is common with nametags. Then it is important to remember that the tag goes on the left side. Avoid the collar, and put the tag inside and as close to the heart as possible. Gladiator Roleplay Idea: Emerging victorious and dusty from yet another bout fighting off lions, the hunky gladiator needs some help tending to his wounds. A slave is only to happy to make it all better… Sexy Male Gangster Costumes Naughty Cop Costume Roleplay Idea: The sexy cop captures a truly naughty offender, and dispenses justice right on the spot. Are you going to do time, or accept a well deserved spanking? Playing on the universal appeal of the 1930’s bad boy, these costumes let you fraternise with the criminal element in the best possible way. Featuring dapper pinstripes and an oh so sexy hat, it’s time to get your guns out and go!

A Butler is not a snob, but hygiene and appearance are of the utmost importance. It is all about making a good example in a stylish and discreet way. Plastic pen and a notebook in orange are not very professional. A good pen is not expensive, and a moleskin notebook is both practical and discreet.