Mencari profil penulis yang satu ini lumayan susah, satu-satunya profil yang saya temukan ada di dalam buku This is Me Letting You Go. Berikut saya tuliskan di bawah ini. And when you look at it that way, it doesn’t seem quite so unbearable at all: to allow yourself to love someone with everything you’ve got – and then to fully and completely let them go.” When you’re tired, go slowly. Go quitely. Go timidly. But do not stop. You are tired for all the right reasons. You are tired because you’re supposed to be. You’re tired because you’re making a change. You are exhausted for all the right reasons and it’s only an indication to go on. You are tired because you’re growing. And someday that growth will give way to the exact rejuvenation that you need. You are so much more than the person who nobody texted this morning. You are encompassing. You are fierce. You are a blazing, roaring fire in a world full of people who’ve been burnt.”

Jika Anda suka dan merasa mendapatkan manfaat dari konten di blog Dipidiff.com, sekarang Anda bisa mendukung pengembangan blog ini dengan mendonasikan uang mulai dari seribu rupiah atau mempertimbangkan untuk mendukung rutin per bulannya. Terimakasih. Forgiveness means giving up hope for a different past. It means knowing that the past is over, the dust has settled and the destruction left in its wake can never be reconstructed to resemble what it was. It’s accepting that there’s no magic solution to the damage that’s been caused. It’s the realization that as unfair as the hurricane was, you still have to live in its city of ruins. And no amount of anger is going to reconstruct that city. You have to do it yourself.” This book taught me how to let go a broken relationship, how to let go a person that I still love so much, how to get over an asshole that cheated on me.Because the last thing this world needs is one more indifferent person. If you're the only one left with passion, then use it. Use the hell out of it. At the end of your life, go out with a bruised-up, worn out heart that gave too much and loved too strongly and felt too fiercely. It is hard to get over a cheater because when you leave the relationship, there're two people you must mourn: I have driven myself mad over the years, mapping out all of these Universes for you and I. If-only this. What-if-I’d that. Tracing and trailing through our history, there are so many moments where our galaxies split in half. Where our stars realigned and our planets shifted swiftly and we found ourselves on wildly different courses than the ones we should have taken. If we didn’t have to search for the love of our lives, we would finally be free to realize that we are allowed to be the loves of our own. There‘s moments when we will meet someone new and we will wonder if the end of your story with them will be the same and there‘s gonne be so many questions in your head like ”are they ready to go through this? ””will i end up with broken-heart again?” but the right question is ”am i ready to risk again there‘s no Guarantees that we won‘t feel the pain or that person will leave in the end or stay but are we willing to risk again?” We meet people for a reason and some of them won‘t be with us forever though sometimes we hope that the circle will end and we found our forever person but what is life without risks ,like we go to school hoping to succeed yet there a chance of us failing yet we take our chances and try same things with love we take risks everytime we choose to start all over again and sometimes the people we meet gonna have to leave in the end but maybe they‘re what we need now , maybe they will bring side in us that we‘ve never knew about or teach us new things so take the risk cause you never know

In this series of 30 poignant essays, Heidi Priebe explores the grinding reality of life. Letting go isn’t an unadorned or straightforward phenomenon. It’s a dynamic and long-standing process. For Every Fierce Woman Who Has Tried To Be Tame I know you. I know that you have always felt different –a little bit more restless than perhaps you ought to be as a child. A little less timid, a tad bit too brash. I know you’ve grown up with inklings of suspicion –that your mind does not work the way it should, perhaps. Your thoughts whirl around at strange speeds and you cannot seem to reel yourself in.” Some part of you knows better – that you have to wait this out. You have to take it in waves. You know that someday you’ll forget their birthday and they’ll forget yours too and until that day you keep yourself busy. You keep moving. And you keep letting the small details slide.” To love without expectation, you show compassion. You remember the times when you’ve lied and cheated and fell short of the expectations other people set for you, and you forgive yourself for them." It doesn't share a too complex method -- just words that let you feel like there's someone talking to you and tell you things that you couldn't see clearly while the break up still clouding most of your vision.Because the thing about loving you is that I’d have waded through an infinite number of Universes trying to find the one that’s right for us. The one that would have suited us, strengthened us, let us be the partners we needed to be for each other. Buku ini adalah kompilasi dari artikel yang Heidi Priebe tulis di sepanjang salah satu tahun paling penuh duka dalam hidupnya.

Dipidiff.com adalah sebuah media edukasi yang menginspirasi melalui beragam topik pengembangan diri, rekomendasi buku-buku, dan gaya hidup yang bervibrasi positif. Lulusan prodi Pemuliaan Tanaman Universitas Padjadjaran, Dipi lalu melanjutkan studi ke magister konsentrasi Pemasaran, namun pekerjaannya justru banyak berada di bidang edukasi, di antaranya guru di Sekolah Tunas Unggul, sekolah kandidat untuk International Baccalaureate (IB), dan kepala bagian Kemahasiswaan di Universitas Indonesia Membangun. Setelah resign tahun 2016, Dipi membangun personal brand Dipidiff hingga saat ini. We have to unclasp our palms and let go of every alternate reality where we’re happier, stronger, brighter because of all the things we did differently. Those universes do not exist. But ours does. And it’s okay here, if we open our eyes up and let it be.” To let go and move on cause there‘s so much out there you‘re happy moments aren‘t in the past they‘re in the future possibly with someone new Ini buku tentang melepaskan ketika kita sebenarnya ingin mempertahankan, tentang menerima masa depan yang belum kita persiapkan, tentang menerima bahwa apa yang kita miliki tidak selalu berarti menjadi milik kita selamanya, dan hidup harus berlanjut apapun yang terjadi. Ini tentang sakit hati dan harapan. Membenci diri sendiri dan kemudian bangkit dengan penuh harga diri. Tentang trauma yang tidak pernah kita pikirkan akan bisa kita sembuhkan dan cinta yang tidak pernah kita kira akan hilang.

Named a summer book to watch by The Washington Post, Boston Globe, USA Today, Oprah, Paste, Country Living, Good Housekeeping, and Nerd Daily We have to start appreciating all that we bring to our own lives. Because the ironic truth is, you are most attractive when you’re not worried about who you’re attracting. When you’re living your life confidently, freely and without restraint, you emit the kind of energy that it just isn’t possible to fake. The kind of energy that’s capable of transforming not just” There‘s no ”the perfect one” there‘s the right one for YOU and that one will love your darkness who‘ll go through your fears and pain as if they are reading a book they will know every side of you and yet fall and love the dark side of you and that one will never walk away that one will know your shadows yet hold your hand Please delete my number. Because I’m going to want to call you when I apply for that job you always said that I should go for, or cut my hair in that way I never dared to or get that dog we always talked about getting and don’t know who to text its eager picture to. I’m going to want to call you when the Bills win and when the last snow melts and when each long, wine-saturated night draws to a close and I wish that it were still you I was on my way home to. Baru kemarin, Rabu tanggal 10 Agustus 2022 saya ke Kalpa Tree dalam rangka meeting. Sebenarnya ini...

We love the theory of multiple universes because it allows us to believe that all the people we didn’t become, all the roads we didn’t take, all the times we turned left when we should’ve turned right, didn’t wither and die a senseless death. We like to believe that somewhere out there, there’s a Universe where we get to have made the other choice. The one that might have changed us. Grown us. Made us into bigger, braver people that the ones who we became instead. I’m texting you this because I like you. Because when I think of you I get this sort-of insane feeling inside of my gut that makes me want to listen to really bad pop songs and go for a run (You know it’s bad when I willingly want to go running). I’m texting you this because I think about your body sometimes, pressed up against mine and what that would mean and how awesome that would feel. I’m texting you this because I like you and I’m wondering if you’ve caught on.” Please delete my number because I’m not going to settle for your maybes. I want concrete. I want definite. I want people who call when they say they will and show up when they plan to. I don’t want to spend my life waiting for and wasted on a person who can only love halfway. I do not want your texts, late at night that say, Kadang isinya menyampaikan hal-hal yang menyakitkan. Tapi kita tahu itu semua adalah kebenaran dan kenyataan yang ada. Misalnya, Being the one who cares less makes us feel cool and suave. But never anything more than that. It can’t even begin to compare with the excitement of meeting someone you are CRAZY about. Someone who lights up your day with every subtle interaction. Someone you cannot wait to see again. Someone you suddenly want to spend every waking moment with, even if that’s crazy and impulsive and happening way too fast. I know it’s a trial to be the one who cares more. But it’s also the most enthralling, fulfilling feeling and I’d like to urge you not to sell yourself short of it.”

For every fierce woman who’s tried to be tame, I hope you know— theres a place in this world for wild heart like yours. And the sooner you stop trying to fight it, the sooner you’re already home..” Terlebih lagi tulisan Priebe juga seolah mewakili pikiran dan perasaan kita yang sedang dalam situasi yang sama. Mengena. Misalnya, Please delete my number – because I didn’t want to end up here. Because the word “Maybe” is the slowest form of torture that you possibly could have settled on, dragging out a hope that died long ago despite your stark refusal to bury it. Because maybe doesn’t mean, “This may happen.”