Sex dreams are a normal part of life, and generally nothing to worry about. Sometimes people dream about sex with an ex, acquaintance, or stranger… READ MORE If you want to change your relationship structure, “start by exploring what that means to you,” says Corrado. Handbrand Harajuku Lovers Hawkins & Brimble Heath Heathcote & Ivory HERMÈS Herve Gambs Hollister HUGO BOSS

Fantasies that center around novelty (incorporating a new sexual activity like anal or oral) or adventure (having sex in a new location) are common. In some cases, these fantasies may be rooted in a desire to explore your sexuality or gender identity and presentation. However, experts say in most cases it stems from a desire to be comfortable in your skin with a partner.Abercrombie & Fitch Accessorize Agent Provocateur Alexander McQueen Alex Simone All Saints American Crew Anna Sui Aramis Archipelago Botanicals Ardell Argan+ Ariana Grande Armani Aroma Works Australian Bodycare Avant Skincare Axis Azzaro

Threesomes, orgies, and the like also create sensory overload. Think about it: There’s simply more bits, smells, tastes, holes, poles, and sounds than in a two-some or solo session. What to do about it

First, establish whether this is something you want IRL, says Engle, “because that is a different animal than simply having the fantasy.” The more we talk sexual fantasy and normalize the conversation, the less we’ll beat ourselves up for having twisty, sexual, steamy [thoughts],” she says. That’s why we put together this fantasizing crib sheet. Lab Series Lacoste Lamborghini Lancaster Lancôme Lanvin Laura Biagiotti Leaders Le Jardin Lily-Flame L'Occitane Lone Lui-Jo

Actually want group sex IRL? Good news. “Group sex is also a pretty accessible fantasy — you might not be able to have sex with your favorite celebrity, but you can probably find someone who is down for a threesome,” according to sex educator Cassandra Corrado with O.school.

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Whatever the fantasy, there should be a plan in place around what will happen in that sexual scene,” says Daniel Sayant, founder of NSFW, a club hosting sex-positive events and workshops. Placing a mirror in front of your bed so you can watch yourself, going to a sex club or party, or consensually role-playing Voyeur or Exhibitionist with your partner(s) may help you explore a similar sensation. Every fantasy falls into 1 of 3 categories, according to Engle. “Those we keep to ourselves, those we share with our partners to up the steaminess during sex, and those we’d want to try in real life.” Let’s start by saying everyone has sexual fantasies. Yep, the entire human race has a mind that drifts to the gutter at least some times.

If you want to share with your partner — but not necessarily enact this fantasy — start by asking for consent to incorporate this kind of lingo in bed.Eyes glued to the screen during that Game of Thrones scene (yes, the one where Theon Greyjoy gets naked with two drop-dead queens)? Hand travel between your legs at the thought of a multi-person orgy?