The harder you are hitting, the less strokes it will take to reach the desired level of physical and mental impact. Not every spanking needs to be about whether he cries or not, and certainly your interest in reaching tears may vary greatly from one type of spanking to another. Establish regular maintenance and you will see very noticeable improvement in behaviour, attitude, and overall enthusiasm. Always make sure he knows why he is being punished, so he can learn from his mistake, correct his behavior, grow as person, and strengthen your relationship. The intensity and duration of these spankings depends entirely on whatever you feel like at the time, usually from low to high.

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Spanking your man is a great deal of fun, and there is no reason to feel limited by schedules to enjoy it. These spankings not only emphasize your authority, but also build his stamina, while releasing pleasing endorphins in his mind, which help him learn to associate pleasing and obeying you with both pain and pleasure. No matter how good your man gets, stick with your maintenance regiment and he will just keep improving. He should be very grateful you care enough about the strength of your relationship to spank him, and for all the attention and help you are giving him to help him in self-improvement, discipline, and endurance. The frequency of maintenance spankings varies greatly, but the majority fall between daily and weekly.Unlike the other two types, which are about him as much as they are about you, these enjoyment spankings are mostly about you - your fun, your stress relief, your feelings of strength and control, and the deep satisfaction you can get from having your man love you enough to endure some discomfort to bring you joy. The frequency of pleasure spankings are how ever often you feel like it, which might well become quite often. Spreading out the spanking evenly across every area of his bottom will reduce the appearance of blood from welts or cuts from your implement. This will allow you to spank longer, and harder, while preserving the overall integrity of the skin so he will be ready for your next spanking.

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With the right balance, you can ensure that every time your man sits down, he will be thinking of you and your loving discipline. Your man should experience great satisfaction in being able to make you happy through in such a simple way.Disciplinary spankings, also known as punishment spankings, or corporal punishment, are usually less common than maintenance spankings, but are perhaps the most essential. Spankings of every level of severity have psychological benefit for training your man, regardless of his ability to maintain his emotional composure.