IT WAS the first day of our honeymoon in Hong Kong and my new wife, Sarah, talked me into getting a massage.

Now is the time to move your way from the erogenous zones to the more sensitive areas. Begin with the testicles, taking the time to massage this area as gently as possible. Besides making your hands soft and warm, massage oil reduces friction and makes it easier to knead, rub, and stroke your guy’s tired and stressed muscles. Scented oils can be erotic, “but steer clear of intense fragrances, like patchouli, which get cloying,” says Steve Capellini, a licensed massage therapist in Miami and author of Massage for Dummies. Instead, try a light single scent, like jasmine, and warm the bottle in a bowl of hot water. Step 3: Create a peaceful vibeNo matter what type of oil you choose, something natural and hypoallergenic is best, especially for sensitive skin. Popular natural oils to use include: The woman nodded her head and continued to hold on whilst I tried to pull it from her grip like some bizarre game of tug o’penis. Starting from October 1, full-body oil massages and soapy massages across the country were given the green light, allowing struggling workers to earn a living again.

This can help create a comfortable yet sensual environment before beginning the massage. Prepare the oils Two years ago tourism made up an estimated 21 per cent of Thailand’s GDP, generating 1.8 trillion baht in revenue. However, the country’s National Economic and Social Development Council predicted that it could be another five years before similar numbers are seen.Finally, Sarah gave up and decided to get her hair done instead, but by this stage, I was all psyched up and really wanted my first massage. So we split up, she went to get her hair done, I continued my massage mission.

Explore spirituality and mindfulness. Experiencing something in the moment, just as it’s intended, is an example of mindfulness. If you’re a spiritual person, enjoying frequent lingam massages can help you develop that mindfulness practice.According to some research in a 2016 review, certain sexual experiences are thought to invoke a trance-like state. With lingam massage, the full-body pleasure that one experiences is often enough to reach that state, which can feel more spiritual than sexual. Without any notice whatsoever, she pulled the towel away and grabbed my penis. I sat up straight away to cover myself and said: “Oh sorry, no no no”. A classic example of early-1990s Sex Ed kitsch aesthetics, this short video tape feature should now be regarded in the digital age as currently "lost". Cases surged to almost 23,000 a day in August leading to widespread closures and a 9pm curfew. However, falling numbers have convinced ministers to loosen restrictions. If the mood calls for it, and if your partner has consented to it, consider adding some sensual prostate stimulation to your lingam massage.