For the most part these days, boys never seen a girl have to bring her mother the hairbrush or be sent to cut a switch.

There is obviously more though, and I find that once couples get started, they learn a lot on their own.

And as far as the questions about forced anal sex, the questions that need to be asked is, “Is this safe, sane and consensual? At the same time, the woman being disciplined is undergoing an equally transformative experience as she feels the man take control of her mind by applying genuine pain to her bottom. Anticipation – Bending over and getting into position to get my bottom blistered signals the beginning of the spanking and builds anticipation. in any contest of wills, the battle with a stubborn woman is half won if she knows the implement in her man’s hand will outlast her stubborn streak! It was not at all like the stick my mother used to have and I had to get half naked and kneel up on the bed.

For instance on one occasion early on in our marriage, Kenton asked me to cook dinner for a client and his wife. Being married to the wuss of all wusses made me angry to the point of losing my temper, stressed all the time, and disgusted by his advances and disrespectful to him in all manners. The memoir itself relates to events that more properly happened in the 1960s but date from a marriage between an 18-year-old girl and a much older man in 1958. do you prefur to have your husband pull your pants down or do you prefer to pull them down, I red another place that having the wife bare her own bottom is a way of agreeing to the punishment.Perhaps the biggest surprise for was my was discovering that I still loved her even after all of her deeply held secrets were revealed as she confessed them over the years.

Among the biggest mistakes either a man or woman can make in a relationship is expecting spanking to hold a relationship together. BTW, when you do something wrong, be the leader, own up to it, and correct it without anyone telling you. i dont hear many stories of wife spanking though heard my workmate telling us stories of how her gfs get spanked and how she wouldnt allow to be spanked by her hoh if he was the 1 in the wrong. So my opinion here is that Spanking is whatever you think it is – or, for some, Spanking is sex, for some it’s not, and for others it’s sex and so much more.

While letting my man be in charge is my personal preference, I believe strongly that it should be a choice. If the webmaster’s information is correct, then clearly efforts to eradicate spanking have not worked. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising.

Initially, as my wife later frankly admitted, one of her tests for marital compatibility was to be firmly but respectfully bared and spanked. It’s a means of helping the woman do those things that are important for her welfare as well as for the welfare of the home. But now living in a new location i do not have my support system in place…and my husband is getting tired of my disposition. There is a satisfaction in the dominance of humbling her, of making her vulnerable, and of everything you describe.The vagina is the proper place for a man to be and no one should not cause injury or pain to someone they love unless they are a sadist with serious mental problems. A woman these days may also have to tell a man that there are times when her bottom needs more than one good smack. It might not even be an exaggeration to suggest some might even be classified as misogynous predators. Also, as the previous sentences suggests, don’t be afraid to “talk dirty” to your boyfriend about spanking. She found some of the spankings surprising when we first got married, but after not too long she learned what gets her in trouble, and usually knows when she has one coming.