This can be any kind of container that can be sealed so that tampering will leave clear evidence; the easiest and cheapest method is to place the spare key in an envelope which you sigh, seal and tape securely. If your man has told you that he never masturbates, he’s almost certainly being less than honest (don’t worry too much” this is most likely the result of embarrassment rather than any other true desire to deceive). One reason might be that men are burdened with many dominant roles (whether as heads of households or heads of corporations) in everyday life.

Presuming that you think of yourself as belonging to the ‘Nice Girl’ stereotype, what does that actually mean? You’ll have done a bunch of stuff you didn’t really want to do, to give him an experience that he might have enjoyed at the time, but that wasn’t what he really needed. Some couples will prefer the traditional ‘medieval’ look, feel and opulent statement of a full chastity belt. Sehr zu empfehlen für Frauen, die sich für das Thema der männlichen Keuschhaltung interessieren oder durch Ihren Partner darauf aufmerksam gemacht wurden.

Arousal and frustration are not the same things; a chastened male might be unbelievably aroused while still accepting – and desiring – the loving authority of his keyholder. Ring-based tube devices work by gently cradling the wearer’s scrotum between the cage and ring; the gap between these must be large enough to comfortably accommodate the scrotum while being too small for the testicles to pass through. A comment about that being the last he’ll see of his penis for quite a while might be appropriate, as you lock the device. Piercing Variants A variant of the tube-type chastity devices relies on the man’s penis being pierced; such devices are designed (or supplied with special-purpose accessories) to lock to the piercing. Don’t fall into a routine where you do all the thinking while he just behaves like an obedient robot (you didn’t choose your man for robotic qualities, did you?

There is, of course, no reason for you not have received full satisfaction – by means of his mouth or in any other way you please – in the meantime, but even so, there’s a good chance that the first orgasm you permit him will come too quickly, particularly if you allow him to have that orgasm inside you. Put these two facts together and it’s not hard to see that his libido increases when he experiences denial and attraction at the same time. And the discussions were practical and within the ability of a couple to incorporate in their lives. It should go without saying that you don’t need to permit intercourse at all unless you wish for it. Choosing a plastic locking system also means that there’s no key to take care of and nothing that might get lost, providing another argument for using such a system if your man remains in chastity while traveling.

He simply promises to refrain from sexual stimulation or enjoyment unless his lover summons him to the bedroom (or otherwise grants permission for his abstinence to end).

Or will you read the rest of the book, waiting until you’ve had the chance to absorb its contents before responding.

As male chastity becomes more popular, stories appear on the World Wide Web about keyholders enforcing extended periods of orgasm denial – months, or even years, at a time. Human society has a natural tendency to stereotype people by placing them into this group or that, setting up patterns of behavior to which individuals are expected to conform.

It's matter of fact but also very reassuring that keyholding is all about us Ladies and we can do it our way!If that’s what he wants,’ you might reason; ‘if those kinky fantasies are enough for him, then why not leave him to it? SITE UPDATE: Very sorry for the technical problems, story submission is now 100% functional and updates will be on a regular basis once again! His own preference might be to serve you in some sexual way, but you don’t have to allow that unless, or until, you’re ready. Your natural questions might include: ‘Why on earth would he want me to lock his penis up so that he can’t even touch it? Apart from that, the introduction of male chastity need not herald any sea-change in your everyday lives.